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So we know now that communication isn’t solely based on the words that we use. There’s a bunch of cues we give off unconsciously that can be interpreted as signals of intent. I suggest taking the time to read about these signals and understand them. There’s tutorials given by FBI agents which you can find with a quick search on the internet. I recommend also subscribing to the YouTube channel Charisma On Command. The originators have my deepest respect because while I was thinking about the idea they went ahead and turned it into reality, now their channel has a deservedly large following with over 3 million subscribers.
Are you in a group of people and trying to find out who’s interested in you? Well good for you, there’s cues that can help you find out pretty quickly. Next time someone cracks a funny joke in that gathering, follow people’s eyes. The first person we look at when we’re laughing in a crowd of people is often the one we like the most. We do so to make sure they’re laughing too. It’s instinctive. It’s also brilliant because it’s a hack we can use for our benefit.
There’s many more things that can be grasped from communication beyond words.
Have a look at that channel and let me know what you think in the comments.